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exercises for all the parts of speech and then
went further into nonsense, into figures of
speech, into everything about language. It’s
more about language than grammar.
“I hoped they would like grammar and
be more logical and understand what sentences did because I happened to love
them. However, I didn’t really care. I
wanted to have fun. Once I got into it
with them — because it was very collaborative — I had as much fun as they did.”
Marianne Gingher, who so loved taking
the class that she has taken over teaching it,
said, “We don’t think, in talking, how syntax, sentence structure, pauses, body language affect the listener. In ‘Gram-o-Rama’
we study how to be aware how all those
things affect writing.”
Athas continued in the same blog: “The
old rules on where and when not to stick
adverbs are based on Latin Grammar. The
Council of English Teachers dumped these
rules in the 1960s, an act which made sense
but led to virtual disappearance of teaching
‘I wanted to teach them grammar, but I didn’t want to be in a fight with
students about rules. I don’t think there’s a right and a wrong, but there’s a
hearing. There’s only been reading for 400 centuries in the way we’ve done it,
and now it’s going out because we’ve got TV, and we’ve got online. And people
don’t hear it anymore. I always heard it.I did from verbs, nouns, the whole bit.’
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grammar in the schools. Such good intentions led to the present cliche in thinking
about grammar.
“Now Sticklers are considered Grammar Nazis. Ninety-nine-and-nine-tenths
percent of us are Grammar Ignorami. The
other One-Tenth are writers and singers.”
Dave Krinsky ’ 85 finds himself applying
“Gram-o-Rama” all the time when he’s
writing scripts for King of the Hill. “It
taught you a lot about the rhythms and the
sound of language, and how that could be
more important than the actual subject,” he
said. “I picture her as that quintessential col-
PHOTO COURTESY OF DAPHNE ATHAS
With Marianne Gingher, left, and
Alane Mason ’ 86 at the North
Carolina Writers Conference in
1986. Gingher believed the
“Gram-o-Rama” course should be
revived, and she now teaches it.
Mason is one of many former students with whom Athas remains
close.
lege professor in movies you always hoped
you’d have, but seldom do.”
“She was not too directive. She allowed
people to find their own voices, their own
subjects,” Moose said.“She wanted to let
people find their own ways. Stylistics did
that with language. That broke me open to
a different way of thinking about writing.”
The course took on a life of its own, a
hectic one, and it wore Athas out. She
stopped teaching it in the mid-1980s, and it
went dormant for 15 years. Then Gingher
told her she wanted to revive it. For the
price of a teaching assistant, she talked Athas
into it, and in 2001, Gingher took the
course, worked all the exercises from a student perspective. They team-taught it for a
while. The 15 or so slots in the class were so
in demand that Gingher began taking
applications and doing formal interviews.
And during the hiatus something had
changed: The swing in education from the
didactic to the interactive was more com-
plete; and, though the grammar
exercises remained the founda-
tion, more emphasis was put on
performance pieces — parody,
song and even pantomime —
for kids who were reared on
Saturday Night Live and other
sketch acting. The semester-end-
ing extravaganza that plays to a
packed house was born.
“Marianne has kind of sold it
as grammar as performance art,”
Athas said. Meanwhile the mas-
ter’s hearing was failing her, and
more than ever, “Gram-o-
Rama” depended on being able
to hear in a room full of rules
breakers. Last fall, she bowed
out, making only a couple of
guest appearances.
The thing about the hearing
is it has sort of validated what
she always felt instinctively about
grammar and language, going
back to the days when Athas and her
boyfriend would banter in fake languages.
When she watches a performance now, she
relies much more on the rhythm, the musi-
cality.
‘We owned the University’
The little house on Daphne Court
where she’s lived since the ’60s sits on land