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Four Years Defined
By the Remarkable
I really enjoyed the article, “Four Years,
Forty Years Ago” (January/February
Review). I arrived at UNC in the fall of
1967, a member of the second class of
women admitted as freshmen other than
nursing students. Your article captured
many of the changes we underwent from
our freshman year until graduation. I’m
sure that most graduates think of their
years at college as remarkable, but I’ve
always thought my years must have been
more remarkable than others. Your article
reinforced that belief.
I’ve told many people about
the incredible changes that
happened in those four years.
As freshmen, we had to wear
skirts to class, but we were also
allowed to smoke in class, and
there were little silvered cardboard ashtrays all over the classrooms. We arrived there to live
in dorms with urinals, newly
converted from men’s dorms. We decorated the urinals as Thanksgiving turkeys.
We had the infamous closed study and
curfews, but we violated them like crazy,
not acting like the perfect young educated Southern women we were supposed to be.
By the time I graduated, women were
wearing jeans and no bras, living in coed
dorms, protesting the war in Vietnam,
smoking marijuana and having lots of sex.
The Arboretum went from the steamy,
make-out locale full of over-stimulated,
hormonal young people grasping at each
other to being a lovely garden.
Politics and social revolt dominated
our lives. I was in love with an ROTC
student who had an obligation to join the
Navy after graduation. I juggled this with
my dislike of the Vietnam War. I never
protested, but many did. The war dominated our lives in the late ’60s. I remember sitting in the TV room on the sixth
floor of James watching the draft lottery,
the infamous night when birthdays were
chosen in a lottery for young men getting
drafted. One of my best friends brought a
giant bottle of Chianti to the TV room.
He was going to take a swig of Chianti
for every birthday that was not his. He
took six swigs of wine and then he was
gone. I think he went to Canada.
We protested lots of things in my four
years, but our first protest was against
women’s rules. We chose an unfortunate
icy and cold winter night in 1968 for our
protest, but a good number of coeds
marched in solidarity against women’s
rules. After the heady feeling of protesting
women’s rules, UNC women and men
began protesting other things. The cafete-
ria workers presented a good case, and
about the time the cafeteria workers got
our attention, we started in on the Viet-
nam War. In my freshman year,
Four Years That Changed Carolina / Student Photographers Exposed
CAR OLINA we had the assassinations of
January/February2008 ALUMNIREVIEW Martin Luther King Jr. and
Bobby Kennedy. By my junior
year, we were boycotting exams
in solidarity with Kent State.
The vast changes in women’s
conditions paralleled the incred-
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Collleege Is Not thhe Gettaway It Oncee Was ible things going on in politics
and in the country as a whole.
As a university professor the past 25
years, I have watched men and women
come of age. Today’s young people have
their own issues and problems with grow-
ing up so fast in an era when anything
goes and where technology and instant
communication have dramatically affected
the way people relate to each other and
learn. I’m glad I experienced college
when I did, during a time of so much
change and excitement. Every time I
teach a young female student with a blue
streak of hair and a stud in her tongue, I
think of how women of my generation
pushed back and did our own thing.
Sharon “Shay” McKinnon Bruns ’ 71
Wellesley, Mass.
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I enjoyed the article “Forty Years Ago”
— now for “Sixty Years Ago”!
I was a senior at UNC in 1946-47
when Dean Carmichael became the second dean of women, following Dean
Spencer.
Since I was president of the Interdormitory Council, I had occasion to spend
many hours with the dean “updating” the
Coed Rules. Only junior and senior
women were admitted to UNC at that
time, and the male students were returning from World War II, thus an unusually
mature student body.
There was a curfew, but I don’t
remember a dress code. Skirts, sweaters,
“Peter Pan collars” and saddle shoes were
the fashion, and to top it, we even smoked
in the classrooms.
I admired Dean Carmichael for her
dedication to the coeds and enjoyed
working with her. Of course! We were
both from Alabama!
Constance Morris Haltom ’ 47
Florence, Ala.
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Soccer Alumnae Speak Out
In Support of Dorrance
In the summer of 1998, the women’s
soccer players at UNC stood firmly in
support of coach Anson Dorrance ’ 74
after former Tar Heels Debbie Keller ’ 98
and Melissa Jennings ’00 brought a sexual
harassment lawsuit against him. Now it is
almost 10 years later, and the support for
Anson from his players has not wavered.
While the lawsuit was settled in January,
we would have loved to see it go to court
so the truth could finally be told. Given
the opportunity to testify, this is what we
would have said: “Everything associated
with the sexual harassment claims was
completely fabricated. The environment
in which we played was nothing but a
positive and rewarding one.”
Anson Dorrance has coached more
than 200 players since the UNC program
was formed and, despite statements by the
accusers that many more Tar Heel players
would support their allegations, not a single player came forward during the last
10 years to substantiate their claims.